Sunday, August 5, 2018

R.S. Meeting: August 5, 2018

 
Today in Relief Society, Sister Allred facilitated as we talked about different aspects of scripture study.

Some scriptures that teach us about scripture study:

There is power in the word of God The scriptures provide us protection against evil. They help us know the truth, which brings repentance, which increases our faith.

The scriptures can be a guide for our lives
The scriptures give us the antidote for the latter days by providing the instructions we need, and help us on a daily basis.

The scriptures help us avoid deception and discern truth
When we treasure up the scriptures in our hearts, it’s there as ammunition when we need it. We need the scriptures to help us face the onslaughts of the latter days.
Videos:
Daily Bread: Pattern

Notes and Quotes from Our Discussion

Why it’s important to study the scriptures:

Unlike physical hunger, it’s harder to tell when we’re experiencing spiritual hunger. The more we’re in tune with the Holy Ghost, the easier it is to tell when we need to feed our spirits. It’s important to read when we’re prompted to do so.


We need to be grateful every day for what the Lord provides us. He really does give us what we need to get through & we sometimes take that for granted.

In his October 2016 General Conference talk, Elder K. Brett Nattress of the Seventy said, “each morning, my mother read the Book of Mormon to us during breakfast… Finally, one morning… I exclaimed, “Mom, why are you doing this to us? Why are you reading the Book of Mormon every morning? …I am not listening!  Her loving response was a defining moment in my life. She said, ‘Son, I was at a meeting where President Marion G. Romney taught about the blessings of scripture reading. During this meeting, I received a promise that if I would read the Book of Mormon to my children every day, I would not lose them.’ She then looked me straight in the eyes and, with absolute determination, said, ‘And I will not lose you!’”  (No Greater Joy Than to Know that They Know)

What are some of our methods, individually or with family?:

We read the illustrated Book of Mormon with our daughter, then reading the same passages from the Book of Mormon while she follows along.

It’s good to make sure children have their own set of scriptures, so they identify it as theirs, not just Mom and Dad’s.

We use Family Home Evening lessons for scripture reading, doing it like a Sunday School lesson.

I use a blank piece of paper to write down or doodle what’s happening, to enhance study time. It plants a picture in my mind.

I like to watch the cartoon movies of the Book of Mormon stories.

When I listen to the Book of Mormon, I keep paper handy to write down anything that stands out. It’s like the Spirit telling me to investigate that scripture more deeply.

I start with a Mormon Message (maybe addressing something the kids are struggling with) and then find scriptures that go with it.

Read through the page headings.

The Book of Mormon for Latter-Day Saint Families has a big section at the bottom where they define harder words and give background info and cultural references for what was happening in society at the time.

The Rosenvall edition of the Book of Mormon has all the same scriptures, but it’s reorganized into a story form.

Using a book with wider margins gives space for notes.

Repetition. You just have to do it over and over again because every time you do it, you get something new, and every day that you go in there, you need something different.

As a couple, sometimes we’ll pick a topic from the topical guide. We did the word “heart,” and that was phenomenal.

As an individual, I get up before everyone else and read.

As a family, when school is in, we’ll read a verse or so at breakfast and have a discussion about it.

I get different things from the audiobook and from reading it.

If you take notes in your scriptures, change them every couple of years because your life circumstances allow you to see things completely fresh & draw inspiration from what is absolutely relevant at that time.

I feel like it’s my journal. I write in it as I go. Starting fresh creates chronicles of my life.

What blessings are we promised as we read the scriptures?:

In a 2013 General Conference Talk, President Boyd K. Packer related this experience:

Years ago, Elder S. Dilworth Young of the Seventy taught me a lesson about reading the scriptures. A stake was struggling with tensions and difficulties among the members, and counsel needed to be given.
I asked President Young, “What should I say?”
He answered simply, “Tell them to read the scriptures.”
I asked, “Which scriptures?”
He said, “It really doesn’t matter. Tell them to open up the Book of Mormon, for instance, and begin to read. Soon the feeling of peace and inspiration will come, and a solution will present itself.”
 a story where he needed to counsel a stake that “was struggling with tensions and difficulties among the members.” When he asked President Young what he should say, “’He answered simply, ‘Tell them to read the scriptures.” (The Key to Spiritual Protection)

I was doing work in India & had a really bad feeling. I went to the scriptures & had a direct impression that she needed to go. I ended up with typhoid fever, so it was good that I left, or I’d have been in a really bad situation.

We’re blessed with guidance and protection.

Comfort – there are so many scriptures about comfort. I keep having different favorites. He’s saying, “Be still. I got this.”

When I read the scriptures daily, I tend to be nicer – focusing more on the spiritual things than the irritation that’s around.

That’s why it’s essential for parenting because we all need patience.

I find I can better handle the daily stresses of life.

I found that reading the Bible helped make the Book of Mormon clearer to me.

As you read the BofM consistently throughout the years, the repetition brings the stories & scriptures to your mind when you need them. If we’re seeking comfort and guidance and don’t have these things in our minds already, the Lord can certainly help us, but maybe we could’ve helped ourselves.

Elder Scott said the scriptures are more important than sleep or anything… when you study them, they’ll be like an old friend. (Make the Exercise of Faith Your First Priority)

It’s a commandment – knowing the scriptures & having it when you need it is very important.

Keeping the commandments = blessings & strength.

The scriptures help you to look at yourself in a different way & reflect on yourself – do I want to be this way or a different way? It’s a kind of mirror on yourself.

Sister Allred closed our meeting with a final quote from President Dallin H. Oaks: “Though each of these practices may seem to be small and simple, over time they result in powerful spiritual uplift and growth.”  (Small and Simple Things)
For Discussion:
What obstacles keep/have kept you from from regular scripture study? If you've overcome them, how did you do it?

Sunday, June 24, 2018

R.S. Meeting: June 24, 2018




Today in Relief Society, we talked about “Be With and Strengthen Them” by Elder Holland. Here are the two main questions and some of the thoughts expressed by the sisters.

What is ministering?

Friendship:
We’re building a relationship. Because Heavenly Father has called us to visit those particular sisters, we already have a connection & we need to trust in the Lord that He knows what He’s doing. There’s a reason we’re given those sisters.

No judgment:
Even if your house is messy with things all over the floor, let them in! Don’t deny them (or yourself) the blessings.

Baptismal covenant:
Ministering is part of the covenant we made when we were baptized. See Mosiah 18:8-9

Listen and act/resources:
An important part of ministering is listening. If there’s a need, either help to fill it or help them find the resources they need.

Instrument in the Lord’s hands/acting as an agent:
We’re acting in the stead of Christ. If we keep that in our minds, we become more Christlike and the people we minister to can have that touch of Christ if we’re truly acting the way we should.

Extension of your family:
It helps to know that family members who don’t live close by have someone that they can go to. It’s what ministering is all about.

Stay in tune with the Lord and act on promptings:
If you have a feeling (like you need to stop by to see someone), do it. We don’t know why. Just stay in tune because Heavenly Father knows better than we do.

Scripture study and prayer daily:
This ties into the last thought. Scripture study and prayer are spiritual fuel for the day and will be a massive help as we try to hear and follow the promptings of the Holy Ghost.

Bless them in whatever way you can/be there:
Often, we’ll minister to people who don’t really need any help. We don’t have to come with an agenda, just be their friend, find a need, and fill it.

Friendship/welcome:
People like knowing that someone is happy to see them. We can be the happy face that welcomes our sisters to church.

Love:
We’re going out to just love them, learn their name, who their kids are… hopefully you just do it because you want to know that person – that’s where I would start. This is one more way to keep the commandment to “love one another.” (Here’s a great video about that)





One-on-one (finding the lost sheep):
Jesus is one-on-one. I feel like when we’re ministering, we’re looking for that one sheep.

Perseverance:
Don’t stop asking/inviting but follow the promptings of the Spirit so you know when to back off. We can be “stubborn” about serving people.

Two-way (reciprocal) relationship:
If your ministering sisters aren’t coming, you can approach them too. Ministering goes two ways. If they don’t do their part, you can help them do it.  We should try to be the redwood forest with our roots intertwined. As soon as we put limits on things, we limit ourselves, too.

Why is it so difficult?

Not a set lesson anymore:
True, but there are “ministry principles” in the Ensign. Here’s the one for July.



Not necessarily monthly/we’re left on our own:
We’re left on our own, to make our own decisions, which is usually what we want to do. I think it’s going to be a lot more successful. It’s nice to have the flexibility to customize our ministering relationships to best meet the needs of our sisters.

Forming friendships:
Elder Holland’s talk helps with this one. He said, “The Church provides us a structured way to live the second commandment better—to love, serve, and develop relationships with our brothers and sisters that help us move closer to God.”

It’s intimidating:
We need to keep helping and encouraging each other. We just have to keep working on it so that everybody can feel like they still matter – like they’re important. Just because you want to do it doesn’t mean it’s easy to do. You might fail several times until you get it right. The point is to keep trying until you change your nature.


I know that as we minister to our sisters, we will form friendships and strengthen the bonds that hold us together, so we can help lift each other and become (as Elder Holland says) “more like the true disciples of Christ we are meant to be.”


Question for discussion:
What are some successful ways you’ve found to minister to your sisters?

Monday, June 4, 2018

R.S. Lesson: May 27, 2018




We talked about testimony-building experiences when we've received personal revelation.  Sisters talked about receiving personal revelation as an answer to prayer, and as a preparation for things to come (whether good or bad), and in their patriarchal blessings. 

We know that He wants us to grow and He wants us to be strengthened for a larger purpose, which is eternal life. 

 


President Nelson said, “Whatever our Church calling, we can pray to our Heavenly Father and receive guidance and direction, be warned about dangers and distractions, and be enabled to accomplish things we simply could not do on our own. If we will truly receive the Holy Ghost and learn to discern and understand His promptings, we will be guided in matters large and small.”



We should talk to Heavenly Father when we’re upset, even if we’re angry at Him. He already knows our hearts and minds, so we can’t surprise or shock him. 
Prayer is a wonderful healing gift for our lives. 
We shouldn't allow negative emotions to sever our lines of communication with Heavenly Father.






President Nelson said, “I am optimistic about the future. It will be filled with opportunities for each of us to progress, contribute, and take the gospel to every corner of the earth. But I am also not naive about the days ahead. We live in a world that is complex and increasingly contentious. The constant availability of social media and a 24-hour news cycle bombard us with relentless messages. If we are to have any hope of sifting through the myriad of voices and the philosophies of men that attack truth, we must learn to receive revelation.”





“Our Savior and Redeemer, Jesus Christ, will perform some of His mightiest works between now and when He comes again. We will see miraculous indications that God the Father and His Son, Jesus Christ, preside over this Church in majesty and glory. But in coming days, it will not be possible to survive spiritually without the guiding, directing, comforting, and constant influence of the Holy Ghost.”




Question for Discussion:  When you have a question or problem, what do you do to make it easier for you to receive inspiration from the Lord?